The future is still bright.
Don’t loose hope, purpose and vision for a great future.
Your light will shine irrespective of the present darkness.
Obviously, you are more than this, and that is what your past prepared you for. Your past is not to destroy you.
Nothing in your past is a waste. Every hurt, every pain, every mistake and even successes were to prepare you for a better future. All the good, the bad and the ugly served a purpose.
All that happened in your past are ingredients, lessons and instructions for your wonderful future. So don’t let it stop you or weigh you down.
Yesterday and today should be a raw material for building a better tomorrow. Move on;
1. Look away from the worst
Stop seeing a dead-end in every journey.
Assuming the worst about everything will keep producing anger, bitterness and pain.
Like every other successful person, you might have been wronged before but be stronger, don’t let your past shrink your future. Seeing the best in others will bring out the best in you.
That an opportunity did not end as estimated should not stop you from pursing another opportunity.
2. Feel good not guilt
Forgive yourself for the opportunities you’ve missed, even if you could have handled things better, let go of the guilt. You did the best you could, so learn and move forward.
Feel good because you will do better if you feel better.
3. Look for the solution
Don’t celebrate your problems. Don’t over-estimate the problem, if it is a problem then there is a solution. Over-estimating problem makes everything look difficult, and makes its victim expect the worst in every fortune.
Shed your limiting beliefs and support yourself to succeed.
Your greatness is my fulfilment.
ATOYEBI Samuel | 9:2:2017
Personal Effectiveness Coach | Statistical Consultant
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